<h1 style="text-align: center;">What If PUA Methods Were Taught To Women Instead Of Men?</h1>
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<p>This was an interesting thought exercise for me. I imagined a reverse situation where PUA ideology is applied to women instead of men, so that women were the ones who had to learn game in order to get with men, regardless of how men act. Read this and think about the reasonableness of it and if any of it seems ridiculous just know that the only difference between this and what PUAs teach is that here I am applying the PUA methodology towards the goal of women learning how to get with men instead of men learning how to get with women. This will help expose the underhanded and fear-mongering tactics PUAs use on men, and will also make it even more clear why PUA methods are so biased in the favor of women and how they try to make men accountable for women's behaviour.</p>
<h2>The Absurdity Of Applied Reversals: When Ideology Meets Reality</h2>
<p>Women need to learn how to attract men or their genes will be mercilessly weeded out of existence. The window for women to attract a <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Germany-dating-service.html?gender=male">quality single man</a> is short since relatively speaking she has much fewer reproductive years than a man, so she needs to act quickly while she's young and learn how to get a man before it's too late. Women must always look and act their best because men are constantly on the lookout for someone better and hotter. Men shit test women all the time to make sure that they are worthy females. For example, a man needs to know that you are interested in being hot for him. So if he says you look fine in those pants, it's probably a shit test which means you should seriously think about exercising more. And if a man says that it's okay if you don't wear heels because it hurts your feet, it's a shit test and he actually wants you to wear them, otherwise he will start checking out some other girl who does wear heels and who doesn't complain about her feet hurting. No pain no gain, and keeping a man is no different.</p>
<p>Women must constantly strike a balance between being flirty, girly and witty—not boring—but at the same time not appear too smart because that can intimidate the man. Men are justified in being picky because they have much more reproductive time than women, and they can afford to wait. That's just the way it is and women have to deal with it since there's no point in arguing with biology. If a man just wants you for sex then it is essentially your fault for not making him want to be with you for reasons beyond sex. You must learn to be funny, and entertaining because if you aren't then he will just move on to the next woman who is funny and entertaining and who also gives him sex. Understanding <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/you-dont-have-to-follow-traditional-gender-roles/" rel="dofollow">you don't have to follow traditional gender roles to find a man be yourself</a> teaches us that authentic connection transcends these artificial games. When we allow people the freedom to be genuine, relationships become far more equitable and meaningful than when one gender is forced to contort their identity to meet arbitrary standards.</p>
<h2>Why Society Accepts One-Sided Standards</h2>
<p>Men are very good at figuring out if a woman doesn't measure up. It's necessary for men to have this ability since they can't possibly have kids with every woman who wants them, since it would be a costly mistake in today's hard economic times. Also, men are naturally very perceptive because they carry the hunter gene. If a man ignores you he is probably picking up on a vibe that you are inadequate in some way. Or maybe you are wearing too much makeup and it intimidates him. Every man is different and you need to learn to read the signs so that you can calibrate how much makeup to apply and remove if necessary so that you get the guy you want.</p>
<p>Men will have sex with you right away as a way to determine your mate potential. You have to do it in such a way that they like you and respect you, but also don't see you as a slut afterwards. But at the same time if you don't have sex right away then he might think of you as a prude. The key is to calibrate and know exactly how much to give and hold back. One way is to give him hoops to jump through and qualify him so he thinks that you are not that easy and have standards before jumping into bed with someone. Also, a man could say that he wants to have sex with you to see if you take the bait and are therefore slutty. If you say yes you will fail the shit test.</p>
<p>A man will always cheat with the hottest female. Men are horny creatures so just accept it. And besides, you don't really deserve a man's loyalty if you aren't hot enough. So if he cheats on you it means you screwed something up. If a man appears shy it's because you aren't attractive or interesting enough to make him want to open up. If a man flakes on you it's because you didn't do enough to attract him. Or maybe he was attracted but you came across as too easy. If a man gets bored with you it's because you didn't do enough to stimulate him sexually and mentally. You have to learn tactics to disarm competing females since a man will also judge you based on how well you can handle the competition.</p>
<p>Learning from <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/what-about-mens-rights/" rel="dofollow">what about men's rights</a> clarifies that real equality means both genders deserve freedom from unrealistic expectations and toxic standards. When we apply one-sided accountability frameworks to either gender, we're perpetuating the same patriarchal dysfunction we claim to oppose. True fairness means neither men nor women should be responsible for manufacturing attraction or controlling their partner's choices.</p>
<p>Every man can be landed using the right seduction method. You just need to find out what works for him and apply it. If all this seems completely ridiculous to you, then you are starting to understand how PUA ideology and advice to men works, except applied in reverse. The reason it seems so ridiculous when applied to women is because women do not generally deal with this kind of advice, pressure, and unrealistic expectations. Men do. And PUAs act as though it's all common sense and necessary in order to succeed with the opposite sex. Understanding <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/23-year-old-virgin-will-that-freak-guys-out/" rel="dofollow">the 23 year old virgin question</a> teaches us that people of both genders should be valued for who they are, not judged against impossible standards. When society stops applying shame-based metrics and mechanical "tactics" to human connection, we'll finally see authentic relationships flourish.</p>